
Well, this is it! My last blog post! How crazy is that?
This semester has definitely been a ride — absolutely nothing like I had expected but full of its own unique blessings. I’ve grown in so many ways, not just with my Spanish skills (although those have certainly increased) but also within myself.
I’m going to divide this blog post into two sections in order to try and organize my final reflections and thoughts about my time in Spain: thoughts on the study abroad experience and how I’ve grown.
Thoughts on the study abroad experience
I already know that one of the questions I’m going to be asked a lot when I get back is: “Would you recommend study abroad to students having been on one yourself?”
It’s a complicated question to answer, especially because it’s hard to give a point-blank yes or no answer; study abroad is going to be different for every student depending on their personality and program.
But, knowing what I know now (having experienced one type of study abroad for a semester), I think that, yes, I would recommend study abroad to students who want to further their language skills WITH the following questions to consider beforehand. (I didn’t really think about these questions before deciding to do study abroad, but — reflecting now — I think they’re vital to consider because they deal with stuff that hugely impacts the experience.)
- Do a little research into the food culture of the country you’re considering studying in. Do you think you’ll like most of it? (Of course, you’re not going to like ALL of the food from said country, but it’s important to know that you’ll be able to find places to eat and won’t starve. For example, if you don’t love fish, maybe don’t plan to study in a place where fish is a staple food.)
- Do you know someone (from your home university, most likely) that will be in the same program as you? For students thinking about study abroad, I would suggest a buddy system, that is, have someone in your program that you already know and feel semi-comfortable around. You don’t have to be best friends with this person, but having someone you already know will be an immense help in those first couple of weeks as you’ll have someone you feel comfortable exploring with. Obviously, you will make new friends and you are not obligated to keep hanging out with this person, but new friends take some time and it’s not fun to be cooped up without people to do things with. Having a buddy from the start will be a huge blessing.
- Do some research on the culture of the country beforehand too. Is the country generally extroverted? Introverted? What do they typically like to do with their free time? I think this is the thing I wish I would have researched the most before coming. Spain is a very extroverted country and I am definitely not an extroverted person, which made adapting to a foreign culture just that much harder. Not impossible, but harder. Doing some research into this beforehand will help you make an educated decision about where to study abroad, and if you decide to go to a country with opposite tendencies, at least you are aware of them.
How I’ve Grown
Aside from my language skills, I think the biggest way I’ve grown this semester is growing into deeper knowledge about myself. I now know that I’m capable of a lot more than I think I am (i.e. navigating an entire semester by myself in a foreign country) and that, above all, I really value independence. For example, I like to be able to do laundry for myself, rather than have someone else do it for me (I know, crazy, right?).
I’m hoping that I can take this new knowledge of myself with me into the next chapters of my life: living in a real-life apartment for the first time, finishing my final two semesters of undergrad at Belmont, and on.
I’m so blessed to have been able to experience this opportunity (although at some points it was really, really hard) and see God’s faithfulness and strength continuously at work. Thank you all for joining me on this journey and sending me prayers and little reminders of home — they were greatly appreciated!
Before I sign-off, here are some final pictures of my last days here in Alicante:

Beach, beach, beach 
Yours truly 
My CrossFit coach and I 
Our group at our goodbye party
For one last time,
¡Hasta luego!
Love, Grace































































































































